MARRIAGES, JOY OR MISERY? by Arabian Oud {R}

Is marriage the key to happiness in an adult's life, or is marriage simply just a must coz our religion & society says so? coz they think we would be lonely in the end,, but is it fair to be married and be unhappy in tht marriage? should we get married coz we are pressured by our social circle, once we start seeing our friends, cousins getting married at the same time and we question if we are lonely? is marriage about endless compromises from 1 end, where the husband or wife , one of them is trying to make the other happy? is marriage about just playing fixed roles as we are instilled by our societies, the man gets to be a husband only and the woman is a wife only? can that relationshp be special, if you are more like friends rather enacting in a certain fixed notion? , is marriage a car which runs on 4 wheels, which is balanced by a husband and a wife?? is marriage about fidelity and changing for the best or worst?
does the younger generation want to take something like marriage seriously? I don't find this happening, I see a lot of wrong images...
then why get married?

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